Lavender marriage
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Lavender marriage is a term coined to describe a marriage between a man and a woman in which one, or both, parties are, or are assumed to be, homosexual. Usually, but not always, both parties are assumed to be complicit in a public deception to hide their homosexuality.
Although there have been a number of prominent lavender marriages in history, the phrase itself came into colloquial use during the 1920s, when the imposition of morality clauses into the contracts of Hollywood actors caused some homosexual stars to enter into marriages of convenience to protect their public reputations, and preserve their careers. The destruction of the career of MGM actor William Haines, who refused to end his relationship with his male partner Jimmy Shields, and enter into a marriage at MGM's discretion, was said to have caused a spate of couples to seek refuge in marriage.
While the term has passed from modern usage, rumors that the practice still occurs to protect careers continue to surround some high profile celebrity couples.
Among the couples and individuals who have been reported or rumored to have entered "lavender marriages" are:
- André Gide and Madeleine Rondeaux
- Virginia Woolf and Leonard Woolf
- Vita Sackville-West and Harold Nicolson
- Cole Porter and Linda Lee Thomas
- Rock Hudson, who under movie studio pressure, and worried about rumours that a magazine was planning to expose his homosexuality, married Phyllis Gates, a young woman who worked in the film studio.
- Liza Minnelli and Peter Allen; Allen's homosexuality was widely known within the industry at the time.
- John Stoltenberg and Andrea Dworkin, both feminist activists, were both openly gay, but their long-lived, deep friendship led them to get married in 1998. The potentially confusing situation lead Stoltenberg to describe his relationship with Dworkin with the following words: "So I state only the simplest facts publicly: yes, Andrea and I live together and love each other and we are each other's life partner, and yes we are both out."
