Prom
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In the United States and Canada, a prom, short for promenade or promotion, is used to describe a formal dance held at the end of the high school academic year. In the United Kingdom, the term is more widely understood to be in reference to a season of classical concerts or "proms", which have been held between July and September since 1811, today run by the BBC. The British synonym for the North American event would be Leavers Ball, or Leavers Dinner, closer to the Australian description (see below.) In Canada the terms Grad or Formal are most common and the event is usually only held for those in their graduating year of high school.
While proms at smaller schools may be open to the entire student body, large schools may hold two proms, a junior prom for those finishing their 11th grade year and a senior prom for those who are finishing their high school years. The name is derived from the late nineteenth century practice of a promenade ball. The end of year tradition stemmed from the graduation ball tradition.
Boys usually dress in black tie (a dinner jacket and bow tie), sometimes with brightly colored cummerbunds or vests, though any sort of formal wear can be worn. Traditionally, girls gave boys matching boutonnieres to be worn on the tuxedos. Girls traditionally wear formal gowns or dresses adorned with a corsage given to them by their date. Often, boys and girls will dress according to the theme of the prom - e.g. pastel suits for a Miami Vice-themed prom.
Common prom activities include dining, dancing, the crowning of a prom King and Queen, and socializing. In some cases, high school students accumulate funds for their class prom through fundraisers over the four years they attend their high school. High schools in or near large cities may rent ballrooms at expensive hotels or, to be unusual, venues such as a pleasure cruise boat. Many students group together to take limousines to their proms. Often costs are cut by using the school gym, which challenges the decorating committee to somehow mask the gym odor and drab surfaces. Music played during the dance portion of the event is normally the genre(s) most popular with the attendees.
Some high school students feel that prom is the most romantic night of their lives. They may go in a group that includes a person they have known for years; other times, students just try to find a date that they like. Many find it to be just as fun to attend with friends, not worrying about the dating aspect of the prom. The occurrence of inappropriate conduct and occurrence of violence or alcohol/drug abuse is common though discouraged.
Some universities and colleges have proms as well, depending on the size of the graduating class in a faculty or department.
[edit] Prom King and Queen
A Prom Queen is a woman who is selected to be, as the name suggests, queen of the prom. She traditionally becomes Prom Queen by her fellow students casting votes and electing their queen. Recently, however, some schools hold raffles to avoid a popularity contest amongst students and pick the Prom King and queen at random. Normally any student from class is eligible to be voted; however some schools only elect seniors. The Prom Queen is partnered with a Prom King who is elected similarly. They both have a Prom King and Queen dance to celebrate their election.
[edit] Related Social Gatherings
Some American Christian high schools and colleges that disallow school-sponsored dances will host a Junior/Senior. Rather than dancing being the main planned event, a banquet is served. Typically, students still dress in formal attire and even bring dates. The tradition of Junior/Senior is popular at small Christian colleges such as Asbury College in Wilmore, Kentucky and Greenville College in Greenville, Illinois.
As described in the introduction, in British English, such an event might be called a ball, although in Australia, and New Zealand it is also often called a School Formal as well as a Ball. In Australian schools the terms used are either School Formal (although most commonly abbreviated to 'Formal'. The same event for students not occuring in their final year of school is referred to as a 'Semi Formal') which is not relegated solely to the final year or sometimes as Leavers' Dinner, Debutante Ball or also Valedictory Dinner, usually so when the night includes a meal and is in the final year of high school.
In Sweden this kind of event is usually known as Studentbalen. The word "Studentbalen" is in this case a proper noun meaning "The Student Ball", while the word studentbal is a common noun that can refer to any formal dinner and dance at a Swedish university. Studentbalen is usually held during the last weeks before graduating (Swedish: "Ta studenten") after three years in secondary school (Swedish: Gymnasieskola) and can be a quite formal, white tie event though the practice differs greatly between schools.
In Ireland it is known as a debs (an abbreviation of debutante ball) or a grads (in all male schools). In the U.S. a "formal" is typically a similar dance that is held by a fraternity or sorority affiliated with a certain college or university. In Australia, the term "prom" has also come into sparse usage and in Britain it is becoming widespread, because of US influence, especially the influence of American movies and television.
Germans will celebrate the Abifeier after graduating from the Gymnasium. The final exam in the Gymnasium is the Abitur and contributes the first half of the name. A Feier is a party or more formal festivity.
In South Africa the equivalent is a Matric Dance, taking place during the matriculation (i.e. final) year of high school. The tradition is, however, very similar to the American one.
In Pakistan the equivalent is farewell dinner that took place at the end of the college.
In India the equivalent is an Annual Day or a Sports Day where lot of cultural events happen such as Drama, Dance and honoring the best students who scored well in their academics. In some states of India(mostly northern) it is called farewell party where everyone meets including teacher.
[edit] See also
- Anti-prom
- Debutante Ball, Irish prom
- Studniówka, or Polish prom
- Vanhojen tanssit, or Finnish prom
- Charitable Prom Organizations
